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What If There Were No More Gay Tops and Bottoms? 95 A Year Old Comes Out As Gay

What If There Were No More Gay Tops and Bottoms?

When I write fiction I like to think about the world with a “what if” thought process. In other words, I could write about characters in a world where being a top and bottom meant nothing at all to gay men. I could create two gay male characters who fall in love, and they’re both bottoms. It’s fiction. I could make it work, but I’m not sure anyone would believe it. However that’s not even something I would do with fiction, because it’s just NOT believable. Actually, I find it absurd to even think this way because it’s a passive aggressive insult to gay culture as I’ve always known it.

With that said, here’s an article that explores the possibility of a world where there are no tops or bottoms.

Baker goes on to say that when it comes to dating and sexual role preference, which partner is penetrated or and which does the penetrating “surely just depends” on the situation and the people involved.

If he believes this is possible, I wish him well.

You can read more of this nonsense here. 

The comments seem to agree with me.

95 Year Old Comes Out As Gay

I’m watching the Netflix show right now titled, Sense8. There’s a storyline in the show where a gay film star can’t come to terms with coming out of the closet. And it shows his pain well. It shows the lengths he will go to so no one ever finds out he’s gay.

This film star it just like millions of other men, and sometimes it really does take this long to come out.

On the other hand, Roman’s story is also deeply emotional and, at times, quite difficult. At some level, it’s the story of lost opportunities. You can’t help but wonder, had the circumstances been different, how Roman’s story could have ended differently. And you also feel for Roman’s wife. While they undoubtedly loved each other in a deep way, both Roman and his wife deserve passion and sexual intimacy. Did they have that despite Roman being gay? I don’t know.

You can read it in full here. Unfortunately, I see it all the time, even in publishing. But I don’t think anything is harder on a gay man than having a large public profile and living a complete lie, I can’t even imagine what kind of vapid life that is. I can imagine it on a smaller scale, and I never judge that. We can all blend in if we live quiet modest lives. It’s not easy, but it’s doable. But to be in the public eye daily, and lie with that kind of magnitude, just passes me by completely.









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Male Celebrities and Full Frontal Nudity; 5 Things To Enjoy In Provincetown; When Homophobia Leads To Love

Male Celebrities and Full Frontal Nudity

Of course I’ve posted about male full frontal nudity in films because I always thought it was interesting we don’t see more of it. This article takes all this one step more and talks about how so many male celebrities can’t wait to show you their penises nowadays.

As we’ve said before and (for some reason) are saying again, revealing pics are not so much leaking in 2016 as positively gushing. Bieber. Bloom. Bowen. 50 Cent. Kenworthy (Gus.) And actor Matt Smith, a former Dr. Who. And that’s in the last two months alone.

You can read the rest of that here. It’s an interesting article and the comments are worth checking out, too. 

5 Things To Enjoy In Provincetown

I started going up to Provincetown in the mid-90s in the summertime, and that turned into two more trips during the year…Halloween and New Year’s Eve. There’s really no other place like it on earth and this article talks about five things you should see while you’re there.

Here’s one…

Let’s face it: P-Town is expensive, especially during high season. Here are a few less expensive options. The Canteen is as close as you can get to an old-fashioned New England lobster shack, though with a chic gay twist. Find amazing lobster rolls, clam chowder and other treats with perfect people-watching benches. Grab some dinner inside the Aquarium Marketplace (informally referred to as Aqua Bar which is the outdoor lounge area in the rear) and eat out at the end overlooking the ocean. The views are unparalleled and the Aqua Bar back there is fully stocked. Or raid Pop ‘n Dutch and Perry’s and then bike out to Herring Cove or Race Point for a sunset picnic. Check out Friday at Stop ‘n Shop is 2-4-1 rotisserie chicken if you are looking for a more budget-friendly stay and want to spend on other things.

There’s also a great take out and gourmet grocery store with prepared foods. It’s called Angels Foods and it’s located up on the East End. Best of all, there’s parking on the side of the building and you can drive there if you’re staying in the West End. It’s a great place for something different if you don’t feel like going out to dinner.

In any event, you can read more about P’town here.  

Gay Sex In Provincetown: I would be remiss if I didn’t tell you to ask around about the cruising spots…the gay cultural fun and games. I’m not going into detail about it here on the blog, but you might find that more interesting than food. I wrote about this, in-depth, in my novel, He’s Bewitched. That novel is set in Provincetown. I just thought it was important to mention this, with respect to gay culture and the fact that gay culture is being watered down so much these days by people who don’t know any better.  

When Homophobia Leads To Love

This is a story that will make you believe in humanity again.
 
After the shooting at LGBT nightclub Pulse in Orlando, Cari and Lauri Ryding put up a pride flag on their Natick, Massachusetts home, a suburb ten miles west of Boston, where they’ve lived together for years.

When they came back from vacation they discovered that it had been stolen and their front porch had been pelted with eggs.

However, what happened after that is amazing. You can check that out here.

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