Sarah Paulson’s Lesbian Character Loses Her Mind Over Trump; Biopic About Legendary Gay Porn Star Joey Stefano; John Stamos Gets Naked At 54

Sarah Paulson’s Lesbian Character Loses Her Mind Over Trump

I’m not sure how I feel about this one. It’s obvious I don’t support Mr. Trump or the way he’s treated LGBT people (especially trans people), but I didn’t lose my mind when he got elected. I like to to think I’m a little tougher than that. But the truth is not everyone is that tough.

They are starting to release trailers for American Horror Story 7, and the latest involves a lesbian character played by Sarah Paulson who loses her mind after Trump gets elected. I’m not sure if they’re going for camp or if it’s serious.

In full disclosure, in RL I actually do know a lesbian who did lose her mind when Trump got elected. It wasn’t pretty.

You can check out the trailer here .

Biopic About Legendary Gay Porn Star Joey Stefano

If you’re unfamiliar with Joey Stefano, I posted about him here on the blog in 2012. In fact, I’ve posted a lot about him over the years, but that one post pretty much tells you all you’ll need to know for now. I also talk about how I met him a long time ago, and how nicely he treated me. To this day, that post still gets tons of hits from simple random searches, and they come from all over the world.

In any event, there’s finally going to be a biopic about Joey and it’s already in pre-production. A lot of people don’t even realize…and didn’t realize at the time…that the 90s were the end of an era in the porn industry.

You can read more about this here. They still haven’t chosen an actor to play Joey, and I seriously hope it’s not James Franco.

Check out the comments, too.

John Stamos Gets Naked At 54

If you ever wondered what 54 year old ass looks like, this link is for you. I’m really not being ageist about this either. I’ve always been more attracted to older men than younger men, and for more reasons than just their bodies.

I just wonder about when the attention seeking is supposed to end. I have this creepy feeling we’ll be seeing this guy’s bare ass when he turns 64 ten years from  now.

The Fuller House star celebrated turning the by 5-4 yesterday by posting a photo of himself in his birthday suit to Instagram. Because, hey, why not?

Here’s more, and you can see the photo of John’s naked 54 year old ass.  

The other thing I wonder about is why is this even mentioned in a gay publication. As far as I know, the never-been-married-to-a woman Stamos is totally straight.

Update: As someone in the comments pointed out, Stamos was married to a woman for a brief time…Rebecca Romijn. 

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A PG Rated Gay Romance

Not All Gay Books Have Sex

In Their Prime by Ryan Field


A Dedicated Dick Pic Web Site; The Penis On Bing’s Homepage; American Horror Story’s Opening Credits and Trump

A Dedicated Dick Pic Web Site

This might sound funny on the surface, and it might even sound like great karma for the pervs who send unsolicited dick pics, but if you look at it closely it’s a bit scary. If they can do this with dick pics they can do this with anything.

A Swedish web designer came up with technology that can track an unsolicited dick pic right back to the person who sent it. And, he thinks it might be interesting to resend it to the person’s family so they know what their family member has been doing.

The source is here. Even though I’ve never been a fan of those awful unsolicited dick pics, I find this solution even scarier from a privacy perspective. Think revenge porn. Not all dick pics are unsolicited.

The Penis On Bing’s Homepage

I never use Bing so I didn’t know about this until I found this article.

Bing had to photoshop this image of a beach on their homepage because of a penis some people noticed in the image.

There’s more here, with the photo. You can try to spot the penis image yourself.

American Horror Story’s Opening Credits and Trump

Here’s proof that if you screw around with the LGBT community they aren’t going to forget it. We have fought too hard and for too long. And when Trump tweeted about the transgender ban in the military he lost millions who will never trust him or give him an ounce of credit again. It won’t happen.

With that said, American Horror Story is now taking a crack at Trump with their opening credits.

In short, it’s a “montage” with all kinds of disgusting images, from bees to blood, to a couple of pervs wearing a Donald Trump mask and a Hillary Clinton mask.

You can check that one out here. There’s a trailer, and it’s really not as bad as they make it out to be. Actually, it’s more camp than anything. But I’m sure there’s a statement somewhere between those proverbial lines.

Ryan Field Books

Said With Care

A PG Rated Gay Romance

Not All Gay Books Have Sex

In Their Prime by Ryan Field


Some VERY Horny Nuns; Why Straight Guys Joke About Gay Sex; Men Making Homemade POPPERS

Some VERY Horny Nuns

This is about a comedy, so it’s not meant with any disrespect to nuns in the real world. I went to 12 years of Catholic school and I love the nuns. They are some of the most dedicated, honest, selfless people I have ever known.

The film The Little Hours knows, however, that the idea of horny nuns has a lot more potential for hilarity. It may be the funniest—and most overlooked—comedy of 2017. 

There’s more here. 

Why Straight Guys Joke About Gay Sex

Here’s another one of those Reddit discussion threads where straight guys talk about why they joke about gay sex.

“My ex-boyfriend (who is a straight guy, I am a bi girl) would often jokingly flirt with some of his straight guy friends to get laughs like ‘yo, I’m obviously straight, and I’m still getting all the guys.’”

You can read the rest here. The replies to the original question vary. But then gay guys joke about straight sex, too. All the time.

Men Making Homemade POPPERS

I don’t think I know a gay man alive who hasn’t at least tried poppers. It’s always been a huge part of gay culture, especially in some of the clubs I’ve been to. But it’s not as easy to make them at home…or safe…as it sounds. In fact, according to this, it can be dangerous.

It’s scarily easy to find instructions online explaining how to produce your own poppers. While some connoisseurs home brew to satisfy their own insatiable cravings, others do so to sell online and at gay events. 

More here. And you’ll want to read all the comments, too.

Ryan Field Books

Said With Care

A PG Rated Gay Romance

Not All Gay Books Have Sex

In Their Prime by Ryan Field


Journalist Who Exposed Russian Gay Torture Dies; Michelle Obama Guest Stars On Will and Grace; Trans Business Woman Doesn’t Feel Safe Visiting the US

Journalist Who Exposed Russian Gay Torture Dies

This is sad…

Former BBC journalist, Liz MacKean, who broke the news of the shocking torture of gay men in Russia, has died.

She died at the age of 52 after a sudden stroke, reports the BBC.

MacKean worked on Channel 4’s Dispatches program, where she produced the groundbreaking documentary, Hunted.

Here’s more.

Michelle Obama Guest Stars In Will and Grace

Well, you have to give the Will and Grace people credit for THIS one. Pay attention. This is how you get people to watch an old time TV show, on failing network TV, that always promoted every gay stereotype that ever existed. And, a TV show that has a straight actor playing gayface, in spite of the fact that they turned down a gay actor once…John Barrowman…because they thought he was too straight. I’m not joking; check the link.

According to an In Touch Weekly exclusive, the former First Lady is set to make a guest appearance on Will & Grace when it returns this fall to NBC.

An insider shared the news with the magazine, stating: ‘The details are still being worked out, but supposedly Michelle is up for anything, as long as it doesn’t cross the line too much.’

There’s more here. Nothing about this sounds definite yet.

Trans Business Woman Doesn’t Feel Safe Visiting the US

You can’t blame her for feeling unsafe. This entire “unsafe feeling” in general started when Mr. Trump decided to tweet that he wants a transgender ban in the military. That’s not fake news. That’s a fact. That’s what Mr. Trump tweeted. I’m not letting it go. He wants to ban trans people from the military and from serving their country.

On the face of it, President Trump proposing a ban on trans people serving in the US military has little to do with me – I’m not a US citizen and I’m not in the military.

But it’s not just one ban. Trump has rowed backwards the advances made under President Obama. He has made it clear LGBTI issues are not treated like other human rights issues. He has rescinded the protections for trans students in schools and dropped lawsuits which would protect LGBTI equality.

Here’s more. 

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Said With Care

A PG Rated Gay Romance

Not All Gay Books Have Sex

In Their Prime by Ryan Field


Fired Google Employee Compares Being Conservative Today To Being Gay In the 50s; Anti-Gay Slurs On Jimmy John’s Wrapper; Trump On Three Magazine Covers

Fired Google Employee Compares Being Conservative Today To Being Gay In the 50s

This guy who worked for Google penned a sexist letter and now he’s complaining about diversity and comparing being gay in the 1950s to being conservative today. Like he could even begin to imagine what being gay in the 1950s was like. Even I can’t do THAT. This is truly clueless at its best.

“I was simply trying to fix the culture in many ways. And really help a lot of people who are currently marginalized at Google by pointing out these huge biases that we have in this monolithic culture where anyone with a dissenting view can’t even express themselves. Really, it’s like being gay in the 1950s. These conservatives have to stay in the closet and have to mask who they really are. And that’s a huge problem because there’s open discrimination against anyone who comes out of closet as a conservative.”

Last I heard no one was arresting people or putting them in mental institutions for being conservative like they did with gays in the 1950s.

Here’s the rest. The comments are worth reading.

Anti-Gay Slurs On Jimmy John’s Wrapper

Speaking of being gay in the 1950s, this is interesting because even though we’ve come so far there’s still a lot of discrimination out there…and it comes in many forms, often when you least expect it.

A young man in Asheville, North Carolina, was shocked to discover an antigay slur written on his sandwich wrapper at a local Jimmy John’s restaurant when he arrived to pick up his order. Now Roy Philbrick, a regular customer of the establishment, is fighting back and he has the help of a determined group of youths helping him.

There’s more at this link. 

Trump On Three Magazine Covers

This one I’m linking to talks about three respected publications that put Mr. Trump on their covers, and Mr. Trump’s not going to love any of them. They’re actually clever, the art is well executed, and they speak volumes. I always look at these things from a cultural/historical POV…as a sign of the times. Someday history is going to reflect on everything that’s happening right now. The same way history now reflects on they way conservatives once thought of Elvis Presley and rock and roll.

This week, the work splashed across the covers of three highly respected publications err on the side of big, blustery statements that provide the pictorial equivalent of a rotten banana pie hurled into Trump’s blabbering skull-flaps. 

You can read more here, and there are over 64 comments as of right now, and not all agree. Get your popcorn ready.

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Said With Care

A PG Rated Gay Romance

Not All Gay Books Have Sex

In Their Prime by Ryan Field


Lena Dunham Allegedly Lies About Transgenders? 50 Year Old Male Model’s Hot Body; Christ Hemsworth Looking Buff

Lena Dunham Allegedly Lies About Transgenders?
I’m not sure if this is true or not…yet. Right now the story is all over the place. But I saw it trending on social media and I thought it was interesting because there seems to be a pattern with Dunham. 
In short, Dunham claimed she overheard American Airlines employees using transphobic talk, she tweeted about it,  and now people are questioning whether or not it’s true. 
It’s unclear if American was able to identify where the conversation allegedly occurred, but Dunham’s explanation that it was between the arrivals area and Gate B30 would place her at JFK’s Terminal 4. ABC News reported that Dunham’s Instagram story appeared to show her flying on Delta Air Lines, which does in fact operate out of Terminal 4. American Airlines, meanwhile, operates out of JFK’s Terminal 8.
50 Year Old Male Model’s Hot Body

This has been making the rounds all summer. It’s about a 50 year old ex-model who breaks all the stereotypes about being 50 years old. In some cases, 30 or 40 years old.

The Singapore-based fashion photographer has a massively popular Instagram account, crammed with fleshy snaps and slightly groany affirmations (“When you choose to see the good in others, you end up seeing the good in yourself.”)

His secret isn’t exactly a secret. He exercises obsessively:

He looks great.  
Chris Hemsworth Looking Buff
This won’t change the world, but it’s a nice distraction all the same.
Over the weekend, fans were treated to the new Thor: Ragnarok trailer at Comic Con, where they were got to watch Chris Hemsworth’s Thor having a plaintive heart-to-heart with Mark Ruffalo’s/CGI’s Hulk.
There are explosions, battles, and repartee galore — and a blink-and-you’ll miss it glimpse at Hemsworth’s superhero-franchise-worthy physique, freshly buffed-up for the role.

Here’s the link. 


Kendle’s Fire

A PG Rated Gay Romance

Not All Gay Books Have Sex
In Their Prime by Ryan Field


Pulse Nightclub Remembered In NYC Pride; Turkey LGBTQ Pride Rally Halted; Married Gay Asexual

Pulse Nightclub Remembered In NYC Pride

When I saw a photo of NYC Pride last year with people wearing white and holding up signs that had information about the 49 lives lost in the Pulse nightclub massacre, it hit me harder than I thought it would. The magnitude of that massacre still guts me a year later, as I’m sure it does for all other LGBTQ people.

This dates back to 2016, and I think it’s worth revisiting.

 The 46th annual New York City Pride Parade was another out and proud celebration of gay rights and culture — but this time, signs of the worst mass shooting in U.S. history loomed everywhere.

The owner and manager of Orlando’s Pulse nightclub, where 49 people were massacred two weeks ago by a terrorist, rode the lead float as armed NYPD officers provided heightened security and paradegoers and spectators waved “We Are Orlando” signs.

In any event, it’s a link to a piece that’s a year old about the people who remembered Pulse in NYC Pride. I also saw a tweet this weekend and I believe they did it again this year, too. I wish I could share the photo but here’s a link to the tweet I saw.

Turkey LGBTQ Pride Rally Halted

I think it’s important to know about the things happening to all LGBTQ people on a global level. In some parts of the world LGBTQ people can’t even have a Pride rally without getting into all kinds of trouble.

Police in the Turkish city of Istanbul have thwarted attempts by organisers to hold a banned Gay Pride march.

The organisers of the annual event had vowed to press ahead despite the ban by the authorities, who had cited threats from far-right groups.

But police briefly fired rubber bullets to disperse the marchers and detained a number of them.

If you are not familiar with what some LGBTQ people in other parts of the world are dealing with, this article should enlighten you. 

Married Gay Asexual

I find this fascinating. As I’ve said before in other related posts I don’t know enough about asexuality to comment. But I do know enough to fully support anyone who is asexual.

According to the Asexual Visibility and Education Network, an asexual is “someone who does not experience sexual attraction.”

So is it possible to be asexual and gay?

According to Mateo Sancho Cardiel, the answer is yes. And he’s living proof. 

There’s more here. The comments are pretty rough on this one, and I don’t totally understand that. Why do people have to comment so negatively on things they clearly don’t understand?

Kendle’s Fire

A PG Rated Gay Romance 

 Not All Gay Books Have Sex
In Their Prime by Ryan Field


Gays Protesting Gays At Pride; 2 Gay Men Allegedly Tortured In Chechnya; Weird Gay Twins Who Wax Each Other’s Butts

Gays Protesting Gays At Pride

This seems to be the year of protesting.

NEW YORK — Gay pride marches in New York City, San Francisco and in between this weekend will have plenty of participants — and also protests directed at them from other members of the LGBT community, speaking out against what they see as increasingly corporate pride celebrations that prioritize the experiences of gay white men and ignore the issues continuing to face black and brown LGBT people.

If you recall, there’s been controversy in Philadelphia over adding two new colors to the rainbow flag. 

Over the years, I’ve seen Pride change a great deal, and for various reasons. One that always bothered me was when heteronormative businesses would put out the rainbow flag during pride events to attract the gay dollar, and then when the pride events were over they would pull that rainbow flag back inside as fast as they could. And you wouldn’t see the rainbow flag again in front of these businesses until there was another pride event they could exploit for profit.

You can check this out here.

2 Gay Men Allegedly Tortured In Chechnya

It’s hard to find current daily reports about what’s been allegedly happening to gays in Chechnya. But this one is fairly recent.

Gay men have been rounded up and tortured in Chechnya in recent months. David Greene talks to two men who managed to escape. They’re living in Moscow and may never be able to return to their families.

Let’s just say it. This country, Russia, is incredibly unfriendly to people who are gay. Russia has laws on the books that can punish someone for talking about homosexuality in front of children. And yet, what’s happening in the southern Russian republic of Chechnya is beyond comprehension, even here.

Here’s the rest.

Weird Gay Twins Who Wax Each Other’s Butts

Here’s a story about gay twin brothers who seem willing to do just about anything to get attention.

The tattooed Arab-American hotties are burning up Instagram with their sexy, near naked, vaguely twincestuous pics.

 The guys also have a YouTube channel where they regularly post vlogs where they read each other’s Grindr messages, wax each other’s butts, and make molds of their nether regions using make-your-own-dildo kits.

You can check it out here, with photos of them. Aside from the creep factor going on here, there is an interesting twist. Neither of them knew they were gay until they found out by accident.

I didn’t know my brother was gay until I accidentally ran into him in a gay night club. He didn’t know I was gay either. It was an interesting night. But I can assure that we’ve never, ever waxed each other’s butts. Not much makes me shudder and cross my legs, but just the thought of that one does.

Kendle’s Fire

A PG Rated Gay Romance 

 Not All Gay Books Have Sex
In Their Prime by Ryan Field



Road Trip To Palm Springs; The LGBT Community and Smoking; Ryan Murphy Mocked For Being Femme

Road Trip To Palm Springs

Last Saturday we packed up the car and headed cross country to Palm Springs, CA. It’s really not a vacation. This is mostly business…a real estate investment we made that needed hands on experience. We have not stopped working since we left home. Plus, I’m editing a new release for this spring.

I’ll post more about what it’s like to be a gay couple travelling from Philadelphia to California in the future, but this is really the first time I’ve had to sit down and write a post without using an iPad or my phone. And it feels so good…like I’m normal again. The one thing I’ve learned about myself during this trip is that some people…ME…are not wired for travelling…at least not for extended periods of time.

But Palm Springs is nice, the mountain views are the best part, and we’re only here for the month of March. We also traveled the historic Route 66, and that was fascinating. I’m already looking forward to the trip home.

The LGBT Community and Smoking

Here’s an article that talks about how people in the LGBT community are more at risk from the hazards of smoking cigarettes.

In 2014, Slate magazine described the motivation for the epidemic of cigarette smoking in the LGBTQ community this way: “If anyone has a reason to smoke, it’s the LGBTQ community.”

Trying to kick the habit is no easy task given the challenges LGBTQ folk already face, including anxiety, depression and post-traumatic disorder. Add to that the daily stress of combatting prejudice and stigma, and it’s clear why the Centers for Disease Control found a whopping 31 percent of queer Americans smoke.

I’ve always known a lot of gay people who smoke. I never really thought about it, but I think this article makes sense.

You can check it out here .

Ryan Murphy Mocked for Being Femme

Unfortunately, this sort of thing has been happening since the beginning of time.

In Ryan Murphy’s Own Words…

“I had one meeting with an executive about a script and I showed up at the meeting and he started imitating my voice and sort of making feminine hand gestures, which I don’t have. I never thought that my voice was gay until he repeated it back to me, but I literally was stunned into silence. He was just being really, really brutal to me.

I was very pained by it. I never understood it. But right from the beginning of my career, interestingly enough, I did feel homophobia and I did feel ‘No.’ And I remember one of my early agents was fired for being gay. This was in the mid-90s if you can imagine.”

Oh, I think most gay men have experienced this at least once in their lives…and it runs rampant in Hollywood.

You can check that out here.

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