Roberto Arango Nude Photo; Me on LazyBeagle ; Amazon E-book Return Policy;

Roberto Arango is Out

Arango is a former Puerto Rican senator who left office a few years ago after nude photos of him surfaced on Grindr. He also has a history of voting against gay issues and aligning himself with conservatives while in office…even though he’s been gay all along.

On Friday (7 March), he officially came out in an interview with radio station Noti UNO.

He was asked by a reporter: ‘Isn’t it time for you to state whether or not you are a homosexual?’ Arango replied that the day he is asked the question, he will have nothing to hide.

So the reporter asked more directly: ‘Are you a homosexual?’

The former senator said: ‘Yes.’

I have no comment on this one, other than how many more like him are out there.

You can read more here.

A photo of Arango bending over naked in an obvious position can be found here. Sometimes a photo does, indeed, speak a thousand words.

I have no comment here either. But if a photo of Rush Limbaugh ever surfaces like this one you may have to get my smelling salts.

Me on LazyBeagle

This month the folks over at featured me…and one of my books. There’s an author of the month spotlight you can read more about here.

The book that’s featured is one of my most recent in the Glendora Hill series, Cowboy Christmas Miracle. It’s not just a Christmas novel. It’s a book that covers an important part of the series and all of the returning characters. There are three books in the Glendora Hill series completed that haven’t been released yet. One of which is a bonus book I’ll be releasing soon titled, Silver Lining Ranch, that I wrote as a bonus for readers and priced at .99.

I’m truly thrilled and would like to thank everyone over at Lazybeagle. I think they are the hardest working people online nowadays.

Here’s the home page to the web site, too. I don’t think there’s a more comprehensive web site out there for authors and readers. They actually took all my books, organized them, and put them up on the web site. And I even have trouble doing that myself. And they do this for all authors without even being asked.

Amazon E-book Return Policy

This is just an observation.

Here’s a link to Amazon’s E-book return policy. This is what it states on Amazon:

Books you purchase from the Kindle Store are eligible for return and refund if we receive your request within seven days of the date of purchase. Once a refund is issued, you’ll no longer have access to the book. To request a refund and return content, visit Manage Your Kindle, select the Actions button next to the title you’d like to return, and select Return for refund, or contact customer service.

This goes for all e-books, those that are full length novels over 100,000 words, and those that are short stories containing 5,000 words.

Although I don’t have a huge issue with book returns, at least not with any of my indie pubbed books on Amazon, I do think it’s interesting to note that I do get a few returns in the US, but never once from any country abroad. I don’t know what that means. I don’t know if other authors experience the same results. I just think it’s interesting that US readers are more inclined to return than readers in other countries.

I, personally, have never once returned an e-book to Amazon. And I haven’t loved every book I’ve purchased.

I was perusing a few publishing blogs early this morning and found something on a literary agent blog that made me blink a few times. An innocent, decent newbie writer asked a simple question and the agent answered with a little advice and by recommending the newbie check out In fact, the agent blogger made it sound as if is the beginning and end of all things publishing for newbies.

Frankly, I think advising a newbie writer without warning to check out is a lot like sending Tinkerbell into Valdimir Putin’s office with magic fairy dust. There are some interesting forums on AW, but it’s not a place anyone should ever go without at least preparing themselves ahead of time, especially not an innocent newbie who really wants to learn facts. I have read some of the most vicious, inaccurate things I’ve ever seen in publishing over there, I’ve seen flamewars over nothing, and I’ve seen so many misinformed know-it-alls handing out hearsay I stopped going there more than a few years ago. It’s also a place where some clever authors have found a way to self-promote in the sneakiest ways.

But more than that, when I think of I think of all things old Internet. I think of the olden days when the only issues writers had to worry about were questionable literary agents charging reading fees. I think of Preditors and Editors. Those days are long gone. The issues writers face nowadays range far beyond what they once were. And to advise someone without warning to go to isn’t just bad advice, it shows the blogger is living in a different time zone…like 2004.

I’m not totally anti AW. I think there are some interesting forums. I do think there are things to learn there as well. It’s just not a place where I would send a newbie for detailed, credible advice.

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Ghetto Is Racist; Goodreads Drama;

Ghetto Is Racist

At times I’ve been accused of being too politically correct, and at times even I agree with that. But I recently saw an author post something where the word “Ghetto” was used, and it was not only tasteless, but highly insulting to anyone who is sensitive to racism.

To take this a step further, I think authors should be held to a higher standard in cases like this because they above all others should know the significance of ALL words. In other words, had I seen this posted by someone who is not an author I would have had more forgiveness. I’m not sure it was intended to be racist in a cruel way. But either way, the author who made the comment came off looking racist or dumb…or both.

The saddest part about all this is that not one single person called the author out on it. And there were many comments that joked around and no one even seemed to notice it. I personally think this is why we do have race issues in America today. If over fifty people could not see that what the author posted was racist, that means over fifty people with good intentions don’t actually know that the word “Ghetto” is considered a racist word.

Why didn’t I say something? I’ve posted before that I’ve learned the only online argument that’s worth getting into is one where you are ready to stand up and die for the cause. And in this particular case, I wasn’t willing to do that. But, in the same respect, I didn’t make a funny comment to encourage this kind of racism. And, I am posting about it today in a way that I hope helps others see that the word “Ghetto” can be almost as offensive to others as the N word.

To show that I’m not making all this up, here are a few links. This particular piece gives a few good examples of what I’m trying to express right now.

From The Black Commentator:

“Ghetto,” when used colloquially as an adjective, is the most racist, derogatory word in the common lexicon, given its so subtle insinuations and layers. Employed to mean “uncouth,” “unruly,” or “parvenu,” “ghetto” is the most popular, new code word to stigmatize blacks.
The article gets into more detail, and I highly suggest reading it in full. This is especially important to me because I’ve also heard the word used with gays, too…as in “Gay Ghetto.”
It’s a term that stereotypes and lampoons a culture and is wrought with racial implications. Now instead of acting “black,” or “poor,” because those terms aren’t politically correct, people substitute the word “ghetto” and it’s suddenly acceptable.
As I stated above, I think a lot of people still use the word without knowing any better. However, I also think that if you claim to be an author you should know better.
Goodreads Drama
I have always had a love/hate relationship with I love the way it brings readers together, and at the same time I wish there were a different set of rules enforced to keep it more honest. I do have an account there, but when I go there I always make sure I go as a *reader*, not as an author. And I only have one account with my name, not multiple accounts with fake names and IDs. I’m not trying to be holier than thou. I just like to sleep at night.
In any event, there’s been another shitstorm over at GR I read about in Salon. I haven’t done anything more than a simple search because I haven’t had time.
You don’t necessarily think the world of bookworms would be full of bullies. Readers, after all, are assumed to be a more evolved species, capable of articulating higher sentiments than “You suck.” Well, not always. Just a short time ago, Lauren Howard was gearing up for the release of her self-published debut novel, “Learning to Love,” a tale in which “love at first sight isn’t always as simple as a fairy tale.” But then the Goodreads crowd reportedly decided to assert its dominance over the fledgling author, and that’s when things changed.
In this article it alleges the self-pubbed author was threatened with rape.
They say that novelists ought to develop a thick skin if they want to survive the inevitable assault of literary critics and the occasional displeased reader. Then again, most novelists don’t get rape threats from strangers online before their first book even hits the shelves.
There’s an interesting quote in that particular article where a GR member says, “Get over it princess.”
This is the GR member speaking to the self-pubbed author (a young woman). This comment was made by a man named “Derrick.” Is it just me being too PC correct again, or does that sound like he’s talking down to a woman? And if this GR member…reader…is allowed to comment in a public forum should he be kept to the same PC standards as the rest of us?
So far, no one has mentioned how poorly this author was treated as a woman. I’m not talking about the book or the reviews or the ratings now. I’m talking about the fact that the author is a woman. I won’t even get into the rape culture aspect of this thing right now because that would be another post. Maybe I’m too sensitive to these things because as a gay man I know that subtle brand of degradation all too well. It even comes from some gay men sometimes, unfortunately.
But I digress. The point of me posting about this is mainly because I think it’s interesting these things are now becoming more mainstream, and that they are being written about in larger publications. Five years ago if something of this nature had happened you would only have seen it on a small blog like mine.  
On a far more positive note, there are web sites out there that are bringing authors, publishers, and readers of all genres together. The one I’m talking about now is, which I’ve mentioned before a few times. It’s owned and authored by two great guys, Patrick and Rondal, and I don’t think I have seen two people work so hard on anything since Tony and I opened a business ten years ago in less than three weeks. So I know how hard they are working.
If you have not seen Lazybeagle yet, take the time to check it out. If you are a reader I think you’ll love what you see. The most interesting thing about this site is that it includes all genres. I like that partly because I think it’s going to be important for LGBT authors to start incorporating hetero characters with LGBT characters in the future.
The reason I’m posting about this now is because Patrick has had a minor health issue and he’s going to be slowing down for a while. And I think we should all offer these guys our support and our best wishes for a fast recovery.

And, if the Internet is supposed to be all about information, lazybeagle has cornered the proverbial market this time with book info.