Category: gay blackmail

Dan Savage Linked to Racist Frat Boys; Engaged Politician Hooks Up With Guys; Blackmailing Married Men At the Toilets

Dan Savage Linked to Racist Frat Boys

Here’s something you won’t hear much about in mainstream news. I found it on Twitter, which is typically where I get most of my news these days. The guy who has been dubbed as a gay activist…although what makes an activist an activist I’m not completely sure… 51 year old Dan Savage, was recently (and unusually) tied to the racist incident that happened with those frat boys in Oklahoma.

Ken Blackwell from the Family Research Council…anti-gay marriage…said this about Savage:

“Here’s a guy that’s responsible for the coarsening of civil discussion and conversation being celebrated at a time when there are knuckleheads who are still spewing from their lips the sort of nonsense that we heard from the fraternity members,” he argued. 

You can read more, where there’s some information about a sitcom…oh God yes I’m not joking, a sitcom…based on Savage’s life.

Frankly, It’s hard for me to comment because I’m not too fond of either Savage or Blackwell. Both have big mouths, both are known for putting their feet in their big mouths, both will do anything to get attention and promote themselves, and neither one of them represent me as a gay man. So I’ll pass on commentary with this one.

Here’s something I posted about Savage earlier this month. He knows how to curse, because Internet cursing is so shocking, said no one ever.  

Engaged Politician Hooks Up With Guys

Before I get into this I’m seeing something that really irritates me these days, especially in Gay presses. In headlines it’s assumed that because someone is engaged they are engaged in the traditional heterosexual way. And that needs to change. It should be made clear if it’s a same sex engagement. I hope that won’t matter in the future and we won’t assume it’s always a straight engagement. But right now I think it makes a difference…because everyone always assumes engaged people are straight.

The amusing part of this article is that the politician in question, Justin Moed, is a Democrat. Yup. Not a big bad mean Republican this time. The very sad part is that once again we find that old shame we all deal with on a daily basis, because a bright, talented, attractive young man had to hide the fact that he is gay. And he got caught, literally, with his pants down.

It all started when Moed, using the screen name “Bitch Boy,” responded to an ad Leathers posted online seeking a submissive man she could “financially dominate.” The two got to chatting.

Moed told Leather he wanted to dress up in a French maid’s outfit and clean Leathers’ house, buy a strap-on for her to use on him, and be tied up in a closet and listen while Leathers had sex with her boyfriend.

But wait. It gets even more scandalous.

Moed also went into graphic detail about his sexual escapades with other men. He confessed to having an ongoing carnal relationship with a man in Indianapolis. He also said he has a special fondness for “big black cock.” Oh, and he’s a bottom.

“I sucked him,” Moed wrote about the affair. “He f-cked me. We hooked up several times. He was very dominant.”

And there’s more here, with a link to where you can see nude photos of his ass. It’s not a bad ass either.  Just in case, here’s a link to the ass shot.

The comments vary in opinion. I feel bad for the guy, and not just because he has a nice ass. I can’t help wonder if this was a cry for help on a subconscious level. My hope for him is that he embraces who he is, and he starts going after what he wants sexually, guilt free. He’ll be a lot happier in the long run.

Blackmailing Married Men At the Toilets

Once again, the assumption here is that the married men being blackmailed are all straight and married to women. And right now, as it stands, that’s wrong on so many levels. Until that assumption disappears we need to make it clear as to whether a married man is married to a man or a woman.

In this case, the men who were allegedly blackmailed are married to women…just like Moed above was engaged to a woman. I find that interesting because it never even occurred to me to marry a woman and sneak around with men. Evidently, there’s a lot more of this going on than most people realize.

And some are paying a price for it, too.

24-year-old Lee Taylor’s (pictured) strategy was simple: He’d hideout in the men’s bathroom at Gheluvelt Park. Another man would enter the facility. The two would have sex. Afterwards, Taylor would threaten either to reveal the men’s secrets to their families or accuse them of rape unless they forked over £100 ($150 U.S.).

Think about this carefully.  What happened here is only one reported incident. How many others are blackmailed this way and we DON’T hear about it because they’re too deep in shame to speak up.

There’s more here. 

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Spreading HIV On Purpose; More Grindr Crimes; Anderson Cooper on Joan Rivers; Smashwords Ryan Field

Spreading HIV On Purpose

A few weeks ago I posted about a gay man who found out from friends on social media that the guy he was in love with and hoping to marry had intentionally infected him with the HIV virus. You can read more about that here. This gem of a guy had allegedly been spreading HIV to others as well and brags about it on social media.

His name is Miguel Guerra, and he also goes by Ashton Chavez. In California where this happened it’s considered a misdemeanor and a judge, in what sounds like a lame attempt to curb this guy’s habits, recently ordered him to stop using online hook up sites, especially Grindr. It’s also been alleged there are more victims to come forward. I guess the judge never heard of sockpuppets…or isn’t familiar with the extent of deceit online everywhere these days.

San Diego Superior Court Judge Dan Link approved Deputy City Attorney Taylor Garrott’s request that the judge orders Guerra to not use Internet dating sites as a condition of remaining free on bond after a request to increase bail from US$2,500 to US$50,000 was rejected.

You can read the rest of this article here. The comments are interesting, and slightly divided. My only comment is that if it can be proven Guerra intentionally infected other men with HIV, lock him up and throw away the key. You get charged with a misdemeanor for pissing on the sidewalk, not spreading a serious, life-changing illness.

I’m starting to think we need a new term for this sort of thing…like rape culture. Because in many respects HIV culture is a lot like it. The victim is blamed for having raw anal sex with someone who didn’t use a condom, even if he’s in a long term relationship with someone he thinks he can trust.

More Grindr Crimes

I also posted about this next article a few weeks ago, where two UK men lured and blackmailed unsuspecting men on Grindr. In fact, I’ve posted quite a bit about Grindr this year so far. You can find more with a simple search at the top of the blog.

In any event, the two creeps wound up getting four years in prison.

The victim had saved the money and drew it out from the bank to give to the men after they stayed all night in his home to ensure he paid up.

But when the other said he had no money, the two men told him he should crash his car into a store to get the cash – the victim was forced to go to the police.

You can read more here. The story is more involved, in the most frightening ways.

I wish I could be more encouraging about this, but I think that if you’re going to screw around on Grindr you should hope for the best and always be ready for the worst.

Anderson Cooper on Joan Rivers

Anderson Cooper recently commented that he wasn’t fond of Joan Rivers as a kid because she used his mom, Gloria Vanderbilt, as the focus of some of her most vicious jokes. You can’t blame him. It was his mom.

But as he grew older he changed a few of his opinions:

‘As an adult when I got to know her I came to actually like her and appreciate her,’ Cooper said.

We’re all thinking it. I know I am. What does Gloria Vanderbilt think about all this now? Elizabeth Taylor wasn’t too thrilled with Joan Rivers’ fat jokes, and Taylor spoke about that candidly after she lost a great deal of weight.  Here’s one article that dates back to 1983:

But Taylor seemed intent on finally getting back at the acid-tongued comedienne. While her escort-of-the-moment, Mexican lawyer Victor Gonzalez Luna Jr., and 1,100 well-manicured guests looked on, Taylor rose from her dais seat, planted ringless (for once) hands on her ample hips and continued, “Because I was going to say Joan Rivers, if you’re here, eat your hear-r-r-r-t out.” Touched

You can read more about Cooper here.

Rivers often crossed the line, but many people laughed even more whenever she did that because it was always so true. Never a lie. The one thing I don’t think anyone has mentioned so far since her death is that she was a brilliant woman. I’m not talking about comedy. I’m talking about her intellect, her knowledge. And I think the hardest part for her must have been these changing times where everyone’s become so PC…or maybe it was easy for her? You make a joke or comment about a big fat ass anywhere nowadays and you’re branded a hater for life. Or, you’re destined to post images of fluffy kittens for the next four years.

RIP, Joan. Even though you pissed a lot of us off at times, you made most of us laugh.

Smashwords Ryan Field

Some may know, others may not know, but I have a full list of titles on Smashwords, from my indie published books priced at .99, to my e-books with publishers. The link below will take you to the Cage James page, which is  a recent release. Once there, there are links where you can check out the full list.

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