Category: equality

Law School Bans Gays; Baggy Pants Hater

Law School Bans Gays

This is happening in Canada. A Christian law school is allegedly banning gays from going there. No one is going to be asked any direct questions when they apply…kind of a don’t ask don’t tell deal. But if it’s discovered you are gay you’re in deep shit.

The school’s student handbook dictates that students must abstain from ‘sexual intimacy that violates the sacredness of marriage between a man and a woman’, and students can face disciplinary measures for violating the policy either on or off campus.

It also states, ‘Further, according to the Bible, sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage between one man and one woman, and within that marriage bond it is God’s intention that it be enjoyed as a means for marital intimacy and procreation.’

You can read more here.

The Law Society of British Columbia intended to ban graduates of this school from practicing law, but backed down after a debate between the right to equality and the right to religious freedom.

I just hope the graduates of this school make it plain and clear who they are and where they went to school so no one gets confused and everyone knows who to avoid.

Baggy Pants Hater

This baggy pants hater I’m talking about doesn’t just hate baggy pants, he hates gays, too. He’s a business owner in Georgia who put up a sign at his place of business with a gay slur to tell people with baggy pants to pull them up.

Anil Patel owns a convenience store in LaGrange. According to WSB-TV Atlanta, he does not like his customers to walk in with pants that sag.

To fight the scourge, he put a sign up that said the following:

‘Only [anti-gay slur] like to keep their pants down!!!! Pull your pants up!!! Or be proud to be a [anti-gay slur].’

‘I came up with that sign, nobody else did,’ Patel, said to WSB. ‘Since that sign went up there, I don’t see no pants down in my store, because they read the sign and they decide what they want to be.’

That’s rich just at a glance. He “don’t” see “no” pants down. But I didn’t expect him to be bright.

You can read more here.

Frankly, I don’t comment on this topic when I see it on social media, but I have seen quite a few facebook friends slamming baggy pants, too, and I just don’t get it. WTF is wrong with baggy pants? Seriously? The guys who wear them always wear underwear. You can’t see anything.

If you want to wear dad jeans pulled up to your chest I don’t fault you for that. I’d like it if you didn’t do that. But I’m not complaining openly.

Lesbian Couple Humiliated and Degraded in North Carolina Restaurant

When a good friend in Brooklyn e-mailed this to me earlier today, I have to say I was shocked to see that something like this would happen in North Carolina. I know a few gay couples who’ve left New Hope to move to NC, and they’ve never complained about anti-gay attitudes…or anything like getting handed an anti-gay letter in a restaurant. I love the Outer Banks. Ashville is not only one of my favorite cities in the US, it’s the home of my all time favorite author, Tom Wolfe, who wrote “Look Homeward Angel.”

But according to this article, that’s exactly what happened to a lesbian couple recently in a NC restaurant.

A lesbian couple dining at a North Carolina cafe was handed a letter that decried homosexuality as being against God’s will.

Arielle and Shawnee McPhail went to The Sting Ray Cafe in New Bern on Dec. 4, according to WCTI 12. On their way out, restaurant owner Ed McGovern approached the couple and handed them a letter asking them to reevaluate their lives.

This is what the letter said:

[…] Please, look at your life. See how it hurt[s] everyone around you. And ask the Lord to open your eye[s] before it [is] to[o] late.
The Love of Christ
P.S. my daughter also was gay. It destroy[ed] her life and my grandson.

And, the article gets even worse in a general sense.

Joel Diaz, the chief development officer for the AIDS Resource Center Ohio, recently wrote a blog for The Huffington Post describing a recent experience during which he and a friend were berated for “gay shit” while holding hands outside Mikey’s Late Night Slice pizza truck in Columbus, Ohio. Fortunately, everyone in line defended the pair.

You can follow the link above to read the entire article, and read the entire letter.

My lesbian friend in Brooklyn said this in the e-mail:

nope. not vacationing in north carolina anytime soon.


I personally wouldn’t take it that far, and I don’t think we can blame an entire state for what happened to the couple. This is the sort of thing that can happen in any state, from New Jersey to California. The good thing is that we’re talking about it now, and when things like this happen they are being reported. For too long, things like this were ignored.

I actually feel a little guilty about this because I should have caught this story and I didn’t. And when I think of the fact that I posted about Amazon bestseller lists yesterday, which is such a trivial, superficial thing compared to what happened to these two decent women, I realize I need to step it up a little and focus on the more important things going on within the LGBT community. I grew a little discouraged after the last general election when I didn’t see any huge support for the first openly gay man to ever run for President. It was as if he didn’t even exist. And he was the only candidate to my knowledge who actually came out and stated that he would, indeed, fight for marriage equality.

In any event, a post to follow soon on gay divorce. I know it’s not the most pleasant topic to get into, which is why I’ve been putting it off for a long time, but as long as same sex marriage is not recognized on a federal level, it’s something all gay couples have to pay attention to.

Hawaiian Legislature Approves Same-Sex Civil Unions

I know a lot of people are happy about same-sex civil unions. At least their relationships are validated in the eyes of the law and they can benefit just like married couples.

Hawaiian legislature just approved civil unions. You can read about it here.

But frankly I’m still fighting for equality and the right to marry just like everyone else. It’s the only issue I’ll ever discuss openly on this blog. And when I read books, like one I just finished by a new author, S. L. Danielson, I’m even more encouraged to fight for marriage.

Like I said, civil unions are okay. At least it allows us to ride in the back of the bus, President Obama/Federal Government. However, I’d rather have the legal choice to ride up front with everyone else instead of being treated like a second class citizen.

Let’s Give Maine a Strong Message…

I’ve never been a political activist. Actually, I’m far from being political at all. I write romance, which has nothing to do with politics. But after last week’s voting results in Maine, I can’t stop reading all the personal blog posts from the LGBT community. People were devastated. I know for a fact, after talking to friends in Maine, that LGBT residents of Maine were especially devastated.

So here’s a link that I think sends a strong message. http://aguyinlove.blogspot.com/

The link is from my friend Ryan’s blog. His partner, Kadin, wrote a smart post that I wish everyone would take very seriously.