Category: Blog Photos

Craigslist Gay Sex Ad; Carnival American Horror Story; Photos and E-mail

Craigslist Gay Sex Ad

This local Philadelphia story is interesting because I just watched the most recent episode of Shameless where two gay thugs did almost the same thing to an unsuspecting older gay man they met in a hotel while soliciting sexual favors. In this case they got away with extortion and more.

But not in the Philadelphia case. A man tried to blackmail someone he met on Craigslist and in this case the victim only responded to the CL ad. He didn’t actually do anything with the extortionist.

Beisher posted a personal ad on Craigslist soliciting homosexual sex.  The victim responded to the ad in August 2012 and sent Beisher a naked photo of himself.  Beisher found the victim’s telephone number and address and called him the following day, threatening to expose the victim to his wife and family if he did not pay Beisher money.  Beisher called repeatedly to demand that the victim meet him at various locations in Philadelphia to make payments. The victim met Beisher seven times over the course of nine days, making payments ranging from $200 to $400.  The victim paid Beisher a total of $1,950 before refusing to meet him again and reporting him to the State Police.

I only wish the victim had reported this creep sooner. I also wonder how many times this happens and isn’t reported to anyone.

As for Shameless, Tony can’t stand the storyline anymore. But I think it’s authentic and portrays the characters well…and always in a shameless way.

Carnival American Horror Story

It was announced today, without great detail, the next theme for American Horror Story is going to be a Carnival.

American Horror Story writer Douglas Petrie confirms that the setting for the shows fourth installment will be a carnival theme. Read on for the full details.

Fan created posters depicting a creepy carnival tent and various circus performers took the internet by storm well before Ryan Murphy and company were willing to discuss the theme for American Horror Story‘s fourth season. However, writer Douglas Petrie may have confirmed the general theme for the fourth season is indeed a carnival of horrors.

It goes on to state this is a rough idea, probably subject to change. Evidently, a lot of people on facebook wanted to see this and it became almost an online campaign of sorts. One more reason why if you’re interested in pop culture you shouldn’t avoid facebook. It’s not the place for the literary elite and the grandest of our times, however, pop culture reigns supreme as far as information goes.

Although I’ve never set a book in a carnival, I’ve always been interested in the carnival theme and I have written a few proverbial three ring circus erotic romance novels in my time. One had a burping penisAmerican Star.

You can read more here.

Photos and E-mail

I’ve posted about bloggers using photos in blog posts a few times, but I wanted to do it one more time because I think it’s something we all need to think about and take seriously. This article give a far better explanation than I could.

For those of you who are super observant, you may have noticed some changes on my blog over the last few months. Tumblr posts went away. Fiction Groupie disappeared. I deleted most of my Pinterest boards. The Boyfriend of the Week has changed format. And all my previous posts from the past three years — all 700 of them — now have new photos on them.
Copyright laws are all over the place with this.

As for the e-mail part of this post, I’d like to make it clear that like many other people I’ve been hand picking which e-mails I open, which I delete, and which go directly to spam. And I don’t think anyone can be too careful about this anymore either. Even though I back up all my files constantly, I’d rather not deal with some of the scary things happening all over the Internet now and if I can avoid something I will. In this case, it means taking certain precautions. One of which is never opening a suspicious looking e-mail.

So if you have e-mailed me about something and I haven’t replied, please try it again and put something distinct in the subject line letting me know who you are. Or even better, pm me on facebook. I never miss a pm and I’m more likely to get back to you that way. I’m also on goodreads and twitter. I wish there were laws against this kind of spamming but there aren’t.

Blog Photos, Disclaimers, Infringement;

Blog Photos, Disclaimers, Infringement

I think I posted about this a few times in the past, but I’m adding other links now, too. I recently came across a new blog that uses photos of men and they had a disclaimer at the bottom of the blog that stated they aren’t doing anything for profit and they will take down any photo that might be an infringement. However, even though their intentions are honorable and they aren’t actively trying to infringe, by using photos without permission that’s exactly what they are doing and it’s not a chance bloggers should be willing to take. If you don’t know the photo/image is fair use or in the public domain…for certain, without a doubt…the safest thing is to not post any photos on a blog that could land you in trouble.

I actually go through all my previous posts often to make sure I’m not infringing, and I have almost four thousand blog posts. I’m not blogging for profit and I’m not promoting anyone or anything here, however, that doesn’t mean I can just post a photo without permission from the person who owns the copyrights. If you notice, now when I do use a photo I provide attribution and I always link back to prove I’m not infringing. I have also heard cases where even that’s not completely safe anymore. In some cases photos were put up as fair use without the owner’s permission and the owner took legal action against the blogger.

And they don’t have to provide you with a take down notice. It’s not required by law, and you can read more about that here. This is a detailed post about fair use that may sound too cautious. But sometimes you just can’t be too cautious.

This post goes into more details about bloggers and photos. This states it very clearly:

  • DON’T: use Google Image Search. As tempting as it is, most of the images you will find are copyrighted images that aren’t fair use.
  • DON’T: ignore copyright law. Just because you find an image that you like online doesn’t mean you can use it on your blog. After all, images are subject to the same copyright and fair use laws as written materials.

  • I think that second line is extremely important.

    Here’s a blog post that actually mentions disclaimers and photos. But once again, it’s very ambiguous and as far as I know the copyright laws are just as ambiguous…they are all over cyberspace. And it’s not a chance I’m willing to take. But I do suggest reading this one in full, because it talks about other disclaimers, too. More important, you have to protect your own photos from infringement as well.

    This posts tells you where you can find safe photos to use on your blog. There are many posts like this with a simple search. I like wiki commons and

    Anything can happen now, and it can happen to small bloggers and the most famous people. I posted here about Sarah Palin’s S PAC being sued for copyright infringement by a New Jersey newspaper. and they mean business.

    The bottom line for me is don’t post any photos you don’t have permission to use, or that you aren’t sure are fair use or public domain. And if you choose to put up a disclaimer and you think that’s safe, you still might be taking a huge chance. You are basically using someone else’s property without permission.

    You can ask for permission. I’ve done that on occasion with models and actors and all have been gracious each time and granted me permission. But get it in writing first.