Straight Men Having Sex With Gay Men; Gay Men And Straight Male Friends; What’s Left To Learn About Anal Sex

Straight Men Having Sex With Gay Men

Here’s a thought provoking article about something that happens far more often than most people are willing to admit…for obvious reasons.  And, it’s not as complicated as some people think.

This wasn’t an anomaly. In fact, I’d wager that the majority of the men that I’ve slept with in life identified as straight. Most of them don’t bother with the gray areas because it’s a lot easier not to. They all didn’t stem from drugged up reunions or drunken encounters either. Before I felt comfortable with my positioning on the Kinsey scale, I was dishonest with myself too, because the truth hurts and consonants and vowels can bruise just as easily as sticks and stones.

You can read the entire piece, here

Gay Men and Straight Male Friends

Here’s a piece about gay and straight male friendships. It gives 23 reasons why gay and straight men tend to have excellent friendships. I’ve had a few good straight male friends and I find this to be true from my own personal experience. 

When straight men find out that I don’t spend all my spare time having anonymous sex, they are a little disappointed. But then they are comfortable admitting to me that most of their “tales of conquests” are packed with lies.

There are 22 more examples, here.  I also find there’s no pressure or competition with a straight guy, no gender politics, and most couldn’t care less about government politics. They don’t complain as much either. 

What’s Left To Learn About Anal Sex

This one is all about anal sex, from a statistical, educational POV. It’s SFW, too. 

42% of men always or frequently use an anal cleanser prior to having anal sex, compared to 38% who rarely or never do, and 21% sometimes do.

When it comes to cleansers, 25% say they prefer a water-based enema, 20% use a saline enema, and 18% use a shower adapter.

61% say they feel “cleaner” if they used an anal cleanser post-coitus.

Here’s more. For those of you who don’t know much about it, I think it’s important to read these things. This way you know the basics. And hygiene is extremely important. 


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Cop Accused of Groping Male Gunshot Victim; Gus Kenworthy Slams Mike Pence Supporter; Trans Woman In India Asks For Mercy Killing

Cop Accused of Groping Male Gunshot Victim

This is one you don’t hear often.

A guy is suing a cop, because he claims the cop sexually assaulted him while he was in the hospital.

The alleged incident happened at an ICU unit in Adelaide, Australia back in 2012. The victim was admitted after suffering a gunshot wound.

You can read more here

Gus Kenworthy Slams Mike Pence Supporter 

This seems to be the year of outspoken people going after each other on Twitter. 

Kenworthy broke his thumb, tweeted about it with a Mike Pence comment, and some woman replied with her opinion. And the problem with that is it’s none of her business. I think that’s what bothers me the most about social media lately. Total strangers believe they can offer their unsolicited opinions and comments without thinking twice about invading someone’s space. 

And he’s looking on the bright side of things. A broken thumb gives him another excuse not to shake hands with Mike Pence.
“It does prevent me from shaking Pence’s hand so… Silver linings!” he wrote.

Kenworthy put the woman in her place, fast. 

Here’s the link. You can check out the tweets yourself

Trans Woman In India Asks For Mercy Killing

Now this is serious business. This is the kind of thing that makes me sad. A trans woman was denied a job with an airline four times and now she’s asking the President of India for a mercy killing because of all the discrimination she’s faced. She can’t take it anymore. 

But after being denied the right of appeal by India’s Apex Court, she has officially requested the right to take her own life.

Here’s the rest.  People are urging the airline to change its stance. 


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17 Fake Penises In Movies; The Very Best Penises In Film; The Strange MPAA Rules On Penises; Top 5 Films With Penis Penetration On Netflix

17 Fake Penises In Movies

Here’s an interesting fact about male full frontal nudity in movies.

It’s not just women who have to wear prosthetics. There are plenty of male actors who have strapped big ol’ fake dongs to their pelvis so they look conceived in a laboratory by the world’s horniest size queen scientist. Trudge ever onward, curious cinephile, to find out which of your favorite actors have worn pubic wigs and prosthetic wangs. 

Here’s the rest. In spite of the way this was written, with such idiocy, you might find a few surprises. It’s not all about penises, but it’s amusing and it’s SFW. 

The Very Best Penises In Film

Here’s a piece that examines the comedic attributes of penises in films. 

Putting a penis in a film is a surefire way to make anyone laugh. These are our favorite shafts!

Here’s more.  They’re all pretty funny. And I like the fact that it shows that not everything penis related has to be sexual or lewd. 

The Strange MPAA Rules On Penises

I found this link by accident, but I’ve always been curious about it. 

Anyone who follows movies with any kind of regularity knows that the MPAA has some oddly specific qualifications when it comes to rating theatrically released films. For example, it turns out that they have some very strange rules when it comes to penises – from how they are allowed to be moved around on screen to when and how they can be shown as being… excited. 

You can’t show an erection, and if it’s going to flop, it can’t flop up and down. Check it out, here. 

Top 5 Films With Penetration On Netflix

I’ve never seen any of these films so it’s all news to me. 

The difference between regular movie sex and full-penetration is that full-penis means the movie clearly shows, at least once, genitals going into genitals; none of that under-the-covers bullshit or clever camera angles conveniently hiding anything “offensive.” 

Here’s the rest.

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NetFlix Gets Gayer; Fighting HIV In India With Valentine’s March; They’ll Pay You Watch Porn

NetFlix Gets Gayer

I posted about this last week, but here’s more about the Ryan Murphy deal with NetFlix.

In a New York Times report Tuesday, it was revealed that the deal is worth up to $300 million.
While ACS: Versace is still gripping audiences each week, and his next project, Pose, hasn’t even aired yet, Netflix and Murphy are already teasing two new series.
Here’s more.  He’s had a long run so far. Much longer than most have had in TV. 
Fighting HIV In India With Valentine’s March
India’s government recently ignored its anti-gay laws to allow this march to fight HIV. The new openly gay prince is working to help LGBT people there. 
Having set up the Lakshya Trust, the prince and numerous volunteers are working to give out thousands of condoms and help provide support to people who are HIV positive.
Around two million Indians are HIV positive.
Here’s the rest.  There are a few pics that show how hard everyone’s working.
They’ll Pay You To Watch Porn
Here’s another one of those start up concepts that’s based on bitcoin. Only this time it’s with porn. 
So how can Duncan afford to pay people to watch porn?
Well, he’s created his own currency. There are now a million Vice Tokens – or VIT. And like Bitcoins, they are a cryptocurrency or virtual currency. Essentially this means the currency is stored as bits of code online, rather than bank notes in a vault.
You can check this out, here. Aside from the obvious about this new kind of currency, I just don’t see how they’re going to compete with free porn sites like porn hub and xtube. But it will be interesting to see if this catches on. 
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Omarosa Claims Pence Is Extreme; British Footballer Bares It All; Gay Twitter Falls For Chris Mazdzer

Omarosa Claims Pence Is Extreme

I’ve never been a big fan of Omarosa, but I’ve been saying this all along, too…

She said: “As bad as you all think Trump is, you would be worried about Pence. Everybody that’s wishing for impeachment, might want to reconsider their life. We would be begging for the days of Trump back if Pence became President, is all I’m saying.

“He’s extreme. I’m Christian, I love Jesus, but he thinks Jesus tells him to say things that are like… and I’m like, ‘Jesus ain’t say that’. It’s scary.”
You can check that out, here. I personally wouldn’t want to take a chance with a Pence Administration. And whenever I see people screaming to impeach POTUS, that’s my biggest fear. And I really don’t have anything against religion or prayer. My name is not the idiot Joy Behar. I just don’t trust extremes. 
British Footballer Bares It All
Here’s one of those moments that happen once in a while on live TV.
A game between Huddersfield and Bournemouth–Huddersfield won in case you were wondering (you weren’t wondering)–became the backdrop for the real story when an unidentified substitute Huddersfield player was captured adjusting the waistband of his mesh shorts, along with whatever he was wearing underneath.
You can check this out here, and there’s a link to the uncensored video. It’s impressive. 
Gay Twitter Falls For Chris Mazdzer
I’ve seen this trending on Twitter all week. 

Last week, an Olympic striptease video introduced us to luger Chris Mazdzer.
“Oh, hi,” we said to no one in particular.
You can check the tweets out, here. He’s definitely all man. 



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Education Department Refuses to Deal With Transgender Students; Gay Marine Running For Office In Alabama; Perez Hilton Can’t Get A Boyfriend

Education Department Refuses to Deal With Transgender Students

This is all too familiar to me and I can’t say I’m surprised. It reminds me of same sex marriage and how almost every single politician refused to deal with it, so they let it go to the states. No one in this current administration wanted to even interpret it. They side-stepped, only this time it’s a lot worse because it’s this administration revoking President Obama’s guidance and safety for transgender students. 

The Trump administration’s Education Department will no longer investigate complaints filed by transgender students who are kept from using the bathroom that aligns with their gender identity, a department official told BuzzFeed News.

This is actually the first time anyone has spoken about a policy change. It gets more complicated and mentions Title IX, a federal law prohibiting sex discrimination. 

You can check this out, here. And with a simple search there are many more articles about it.

Gay Marine Running For Office In Alabama

In spite of what the education department just did to transgender students, they’d better pay attention because we’re not disappearing any time soon. And this is only more proof of that. 

An openly gay Marine recently made this announcement…

Nine days ago, I was approached by a dear friend who asked if I would consider running to fill the vacant seat for Alabama State House District 54. In the past week, I’ve spent many hours in conversation with family and friends, but more importantly, I’ve asked myself how can I best serve my community. On Friday, I traveled to Montgomery to complete qualifying paperwork to run. I look forward to expanding my lifetime of service as I announce my candidacy for State House of Representatives District 54. We are better together. Let’s get to work!

You can read more about it, here.  There are a few photos of him.

Perez Hilton Can’t Get A Boyfriend

Now on the lighter side of the news. And this is about as light as it gets.

It’s nearly Valentine’s Day, and Perez Hilton can’t find a boyfriend. Not only that, but he’s almost 40. The world is ending.
Since updating his dating profile last month, Hilton says he’s had zero luck meeting any guys. Part of the problem may be that he doesn’t use dating apps. Hilton says he still uses a dating website. Apps are just too inconvenient.

Here’s more. He gets into this whole long story about how he doesn’t like using hook up apps with his phone. Some of the comments are unusually mean, which is unfortunate. We shouldn’t do that to each other. 


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Men Who Wish They Hadn’t Been Circumcised; 6 LGBTQ Films To Watch; Boycotting Bermuda Over Gay Marriage

Men Who Wish They Hadn’t Been Circumcised 

Whenever I see articles about circumcision I can’t help but wonder. In more liberal segments of our society, especially with the PC crowd, men are taught to believe that women should have the right to choose what they do with their bodies and men should have no say in the matter. However, when it comes to circumcision, in most discussions I’ve seen, women can be highly vocal about how they feel about circumcision and they don’t hesitate to voice their opinions as loudly and clearly as possible.

It’s just interesting to watch sometimes.

With that said, here’s a piece about how men who are circumcised wish they weren’t.

Nick Hung from Omaha, Nebraska told Gay Star News: ‘Wished I had a choice.
When I am with an uncut man, sometimes we discuss the difference. How protected his head is, never over dries, so sensitive. How the slightest touch feels good.
‘I will never know that pleasure. Never have that level of sensitive awesome sensations. [Circumcision] just seems so dark ages and barbaric,’ he said.

You can check out the rest here. Men have the right to decide on whether or not they want to be mutilated. 


6 LGBTQ Films To Watch

I like everything about this. I think films like this are important to the LGBTQ community and everyone else who falls under the umbrella of LGBTQ. We are so highly underrepresented by Hollywood and the media most of us don’t even know it and we think that a movie like Call Me By Your Name is actually gay romance. That’s sad.

In 2011, the LGBTQ media arts non-profit established Frameline Voices, a monthly spotlight program that highlights stories underrepresented by Hollywood and the mainstream media by making them free for viewing on the internet.

You can read more about the films here


Boycotting Bermuda Over Gay Marriage

I’ve already posted about how gay marriage was legal in Bermuda, and how they recently made it illegal again. And now I’m posting this about how to avoid Bermuda, and how to avoid supporting their tourism. It’s about 6 alternative places to go instead of Bermuda. And it’s for everyone, not just LGBTQ people. Because, as this article states, everyone cares about this now. 

“Significantly, it’s not only LGBT travelers that care about equal rights based on sexual orientation. Our research indicates many companies, consumers and travelers, including the overwhelming majority of the younger visitors powering Bermuda’s growth, care about this issue,” the Tourism Authority said in a letter.
Since Bermuda, which has a long history of homophobia, just killed its reputation among not just LGBTQ travelers but all travelers with a conscience, we’ve got you covered. Here’s a list of some island life destinations that welcome us–and marriage equality.
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Mike Pence and Adam Rippon On Gay Rights; India’s Openly Gay Prince On Coming Out; Why Preferences On Hook Up Apps Are Racist

Mike Pence and Adam Rippon On Gay Rights

This is from the New York Times and it’s interesting to see it making mainstream news. I’ve been linking to smaller LGBT news outlets with this story and they don’t seem to be getting the story totally right. They’re getting it partially right, but there’s a lot more. And like most news nowadays you have to search far and wide.

In any event, here’s a more detailed version of what’s really been going on between the VP and Rippon.

As controversies go, this one seems to have it all. Mr. Rippon, a charismatic 28-year-old figure skater, newly minted gay icon and social media darling, criticized Mr. Pence for his opposition to gay rights and long-rumored support of conversion therapy, a discredited practice that proponents claim can make gay people straight. Mr. Rippon also declined an invitation to meet with Mr. Pence before the Games, his agent said.

Mr. Pence and his spokespeople have pushed back, arguing that he does not support conversion therapy, which has been discredited by the medical community and condemned by rights groups. And the snub from Mr. Rippon? They say it never happened because they never asked him to meet in the first place.

There’s a lot more here, with many more details.

India’s Openly Gay Prince On Coming Out

Here’s more about Prince Manvendra from India. It’s a riveting story because it shows you what they’re still doing to gay people.

The Indian prince, who is the son and probable heir of the Maharaja of Rajpipla in Gujarat in western India, was forced to shroud his sexuality from public view for years. Marrying a princess of Jhabua State in Madhya Pradesh in 1991, Prince Mavendra lived a lie and his matrimony remained unconsummated for its entirety.

Here’s the link.

Why Preferences On Hook Up Apps Are Racist

Here’s more in the ongoing discussion with hook up apps and alleged racism. I use the word alleged because I know how strongly some feel about this. A lot of guys don’t like being labeled racist because they have certain sexual preferences…or types…when it comes to the men they date.

This is where structural racism comes into play. Because preferences are actually shaped by learned values. When you’re judging a person based solely on their racial background, you’re acting on generalizations you’ve learned to associate with that person’s appearance or heritage. You can’t say it’s their personality because you shut them down before you even got to know them.

Here’s the rest. It’s hard for me to comment because I never had any of these set preferences with regard to race, so I don’t totally understand it on a personal level. It just never occurred to me to not date a guy because of his race. 



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Ten Things You Didn’t Know About Your Penis; The Winter Olympics’ Giant Robot of Fire Penis; Bermuda Outlaws Gay Marriage

Ten Things You Didn’t Know About Your Penis

There hasn’t been much penis news lately, but I did find a few things recently that looked interesting.

Penises are born ready. It is common for babies to exit the womb with an erection. Even before the moment of birth, ultrasound scans sometimes show a fetus with a fully formed erection.
According to a study from 1991, fetal erections occur most commonly during random eye movement (REM) sleep. And, they can happen a number of times each hour. No one is quite sure why, but it might just be our body’s way of testing things out and keeping them running correctly.

Here’s the rest. The other nine are just as enlightening.

The Winter Olympics’ Giant Robot of Fire Penis

Some people are joking about the contraption they used to light the Olympic cauldron. They’re claiming it’s too phallic.

Stunned viewers watching on television around the world had only one thing on their minds.
One Twitter user wrote: “Why did South Korea choose to light the Olympic torch with some sort of flaming robot penis?”
Here’s the rest. They have photos, and it’s SFW. 
Bermuda Outlaws Gay Marriage
I remember reading about a lawmaker in Australia who didn’t want to rush legal gay marriage because she believed it was important to make the law so solid that no one could ever take it away once we got it. She took a lot of criticism for that, but I always thought she was on the right track. This bothers me a great deal. 
Bermuda has forbidden same-sex marriage, only nine months after legalizing it, in what advocates for gay and lesbian rights called a disappointing setback.
Same-sex marriage became legal in Bermuda, a British overseas territory, in May as a result of a ruling by the island’s Supreme Court.

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