Grindr Recognizes Gay Men Who Are Not Tops or Bottoms, Ryan Field Books

 Grindr Recognizes Gay Men Who Are Not Tops or Bottoms As “Sides”

This is a truly interesting article about gay men, and I’ve often posted about this exact same topic. Not all gay men fit into the category of top or bottom. Believe it or not, there are gay men out there who don’t like or do anal sex. I don’t totally understand that, but they are out there and they do exist. And finally, Grindr decided to respect them with something new. 

Grindr added a position called side…Sides are men who find fulfillment in every kind of sexual act except anal penetration. 

Here’s more. Sides even go so far as to refer to their brand of sex as “outercourse.” The article goes on to explain more about sides, and even quotes a few gay men who have been sides all their lives. There’s a video, too. I’m just glad they are finally being recognized after all this time.

I knew a side once who was just into feet. 


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Once Upon a Castle by Ryan Field

A Different Kind of Southern Love Story

What readers are saying about “Uncertainty”


“A wonderful story that I loved. The characters were well developed and strong. Gus: A sweet young man. Doing something for all the wrong reasons. Craig: his boyfriend, he’ll go along with anything Gus say. Henry: Gus father a no-nonsense man, who’s husband died last year. I enjoyed this story.”

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