Aging Gay Man Talks about the Negatives of Getting Older in Gay Culture, Ryan Field Books

 Aging Gay Man Talks about the Negatives of Getting Older in Gay Culture

I’ve seen it all my life. As gay men age, they become invisible and it really sucks. Unless of course, they have a lot of money. The young ones still flock to the older gay men with money. And don’t tell me it’s for love. I’ve seen it before too many times. If these older gay men didn’t have money there would also be invisible. Aging is a rough part of being a gay man. And here’s an article about a guy who talks about it openly.

As a gay man who recently turned 60, I’m pretty sure my life is over. Yes, it’s possible that the graying temples, eye wrinkles and extra padding – which has extinguished my dream of ever having discernible abs – have also ushered in a new era of melodrama. 

Here’s more. You’ll need a subscription to read the rest. But it’s worth reading. I don’t think getting older is easy on anyone, gay or straight. But in gay culture, the focus has always been so youth-oriented. 

The Wizard of Pride

Amazon E-book or Paperback

The Straight Pride Parade
The Straight Pride Parade

 Don’t Be Afraid of Virginia’s Woolf


Once Upon a Castle by Ryan Field

A Different Kind of Southern Love Story

What readers are saying about “Uncertainty”


“A wonderful story that I loved. The characters were well developed, and strong. Gus: A sweet young man. Doing something for all the wrong reasons. Craig: his boyfriend, he’ll go along with anything Gus say. Henry: Gus father a no nonsense man, who’s husband died last year. I enjoyed this story.”

Uncertainty by [Field, Ryan]

What readers said about “Altered Parts”
“Best Gay Novel In Years. This story will stay with you and you will feel you know every character and the beauty of their home in the mountains of North Carolina.”
In paperback or e-book. #gayromance #Wednesday

Altered Parts

Altered Parts by [Field, Ryan]

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