Demi Lovato Is Too Gay To Marry a Man
I’m not sure how this works because Lovato doesn’t actually say she’s gay. Right now she simply says she’s “too gay to marry a man.” So what? I’m too gay to ever even think about marrying a woman. That’s not going to change in 5 or 10 years from now. And I’m proud of that. That’s how it usually works. But Lovato seems to think she might change her mind? Maybe she’s bisexual? I’m honestly not sure and I’m not making any assumptions here. It’s just confusing, is all.
I can tell you what it’s like to be a gay man, but I can’t tell you what it’s like to be Demi Lovato.
“Regardless if drama is happening or not, I am too gay to marry a man right now,” she says. “I don’t know if that will change in 10 years and I don’t know if that’ll never change, but I love accepting myself.”
According to Lovato, she doesn’t want her sexual identity to be labeled. The only problem I see with this is that I don’t believe that being gay is my sexual identity. I hear that all the time and it bothers me because being gay isn’t just about sex and sexuality. There are many gay men who do not have sex. I would imagine there are many gay women who don’t have sex. And when people like Lovato say things like this it often misleads people into believing things that aren’t true for all gay people. Nothing she says is true for me, as a gay man. I just think it’s important to make that distinction. She is strictly speaking for herself.