Total Bottoms Talk about Why They Won’t Top
I’ve always believed there are either tops or bottoms and sometimes, on the rare occasion, you find someone who truly is versatile. In other words, I don’t believe it when many claim to be versatile. Or for that matter, those who claim to be tops but are really total bottoms. Oh, I’ve seen that many times. They will lie about being bottoms just because they think it makes them inferior to a top. There is, and there always has been, a certain stigma attached to being a bottom and that’s a shame. Once again, this is coming from my own personal experience as a gay man. A friend didn’t tell me about it.
This is why I always try to keep the lines drawn in my books and stories with respect to tops and bottoms. I’ve read inaccurate m/m romances where the author didn’t seem to think being a top or a bottom mattered. And sadly, that usually happens when the author is not a gay man and truly doesn’t know any better. I’ve even had books of mine reviewed poorly because I told them the truth.
In any event, I digress. Some things are changing and these total bottoms are talking about why they prefer to be bottoms.
I prefer to bottom because, frankly, it feels better. The prostate is the g-spot for males, so it makes sense to like having it hit during sex. It causes me to orgasm and makes my orgasms more intense.
Here’s the rest. I also believe it’s a mental thing, too. Gay sex is a lot like hetero sex in that respect.
Ezra Miller’s Sexy Queer Playboy Shoot
I don’t know how I missed this one back in 2018, but I found it now and that’s all that matters. I love Ezra Miller and I love this photoshoot he did. It’s crossing the kind of boundaries and lines that I believe need to be crossed.
‘It’s really important to acknowledge the diversity of voices who have experienced this shit, and all genders, all capacities, all types of people. Everyone is victim to it. Everyone is a survivor of it.’
Here’s a link to the rest. I wish I could just share one photo. They truly are excellent and I hope you take the time to click on this link. It’s totally SFW and you won’t be disappointed.
Don’t Be Afraid of Virginia’s Woolf
Once Upon a Castle by Ryan Field
“A wonderful story that I loved. The characters were well developed, and strong. Gus: A sweet young man. Doing something for all the wrong reasons. Craig: his boyfriend, he’ll go along with anything Gus say. Henry: Gus father a no nonsense man, who’s husband died last year. I enjoyed this story.”
“Best Gay Novel In Years. This story will stay with you and you will feel you know every character and the beauty of their home in the mountains of North Carolina.”