An Honest, Sweet "Heteroflexible" Guy Is Curious, He Had the Best Gay Sex of His Life Writing About Straight Honeymoons, Ryan Field Books

An Honest, Sweet “Heteroflexible” Guy Is Curious

I can’t help it. I love these new terms…”heteroflexible.” They’re as amusing as they are reality in many cases, and I think they’ve been ignored for too long. They show that not everyone falls under a category or into a neat little box. And that’s fine. It’s also nothing new. We’re just beginning to talk about these things openly. 

Here’s a guy who says he’s “heteroflexible,” and he’s curious about engaging in simple, harmless sex with men.  

“So I identify as mostly heteroflexible, but I’ve had the desire for years to hook up with another guy to see how it is. Basically oral and making out/foreplay only,” he wrote in a recent Reddit thread. “That said, even though I can express that on an app, I feel as though it’s selfish. I’m really only doing this to fulfill a sexual urge, and it feels thoughtless to a partner.”

I love his honesty, and I don’t think there’s anything selfish about it. Although I’ve never actually used the word “heteroflexible” in a novel, I have written about characters just like him. You can check this out, here. 

He Had the Best Gay Sex of His Life Writing About Straight Honeymoons

This story is about a guy wrote about straight wedding for a conservative bridal publication. But he wasn’t thrilled with the more boring aspects of the job and he asked his editor for more responsibility, most of which included travel so he could write about straight honeymoons. And he wound up with some really excellent hook ups. 

The windsurfer instructor in Bonaire was just about the best teacher I’ve ever had, and I didn’t learn a thing about the sport. In Aruba, the hotel’s point-person gave me a tour of the pool area and a more intimate tour of his boyfriend. 

Here’s more. It’s a nice personal story with a happy ending. 

What readers said…
“Best Gay Novel In Years. This story will stay with you and you will feel you know every character and the beauty of their home in the mountains of North Carolina.”

Altered Parts

Altered Parts by [Field, Ryan]


What readers said about Kendle’s Fire. 

While the book is easily readable, it also addresses emotions stereotypes and relationships. I would have preferred it be 3 times as long and tragically most guys don’t find happy endings as depicted.. but in a short book, it provides food for thought, clarity and insight.. far more and better expressed than 99% of gay fiction . I don’t think it could have been done better.


Kendle's Fire by Ryan Field



Written by Lambda-Award winning author Ryan Field, A Starr Is Born is a queer retelling of an old rags to riches trope that’s been reinterpreted many times, but this time it’s totally different with gay main characters, a gay love story, and a gay male point of view. It’s partly a light-hearted parody and partly sarcasm. It’s also highly erotic and charged with authentic, emotional gay male romance.

From the day they meet for the first time until the day their lives change forever, Harrison Parker and Morton Starr were destined for greatness—and each other. A Starr is Born follows the paths of handsome, badly-behaving rock star Harrison Parker and sexy gender-bending performer Morton Starr, who is just starting his career.

Morton is so madly in love with his husband, Harrison, he’ll do anything to please him, including overlooking all his self-destructive issues. However, as openly gay Morton gains more fame and success in the mainstream with his popular gay love songs and his unique gender-bending image, and Harrison continues to slide downhill, there comes a point where everything has to change. And when that climax finally happens, Morton isn’t certain about anything in his future or his marriage.
A Starr is Born by [Field, Ryan]




The Straight Pride Parade: This is one night he’ll never forget! by [Field, Ryan ]




How to be a Good Gay Bottom 

How to Be a Good Gay Bottom by [Field, Ryan]

The Rescuer
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