Hot Castro Cop
Remember my post about the hot cop of Castro in San Francisco that had Armistead Maupin so weak? We now know his name and he even has a Facebook page.
Kohrs hadn’t done anything to draw attention to himself except for being hunky and doing his job as a patrol officer in one of the gayest neighborhoods in the US – the neighborhood where Harvey Milk launched his political career.
You can read more about him here where there’s a link to his Facebook page. He made a point of showing support for gay pride and he’s straight.
I have heard more comments in conversation about whether or not there are more gay bottoms or tops in my lifetime to fill volumes. Sometimes it’s in jest, other times it’s snarky. And the one thing that almost always seem to ring true is that very few ever want to openly admit whether or not they are tops or bottoms. This article gives a chart about which cities have more tops or bottoms.
There’s more here. I once had a friend who claimed most gay men are bottoms. But we all know that’s not true. I also read once where it’s more like 92% are bottoms. And I’ll never forget an interview I saw once where a talk show host asked an older gay man why he liked to bottom. The older man said, “Stick your finger in your ear and move it around. Which feels better the finger or the ear?”
More Bottoms In NY?
Tony swears he can tell a top from a bottom just by looking at a guy. I’ve never had that gift and I find articles like this interesting. Of course it does contradict other articles, and we’re still left wondering in the end, but this one does make a few excellent points about why there might be a surplus of bottoms in NY. As always, the comments must be read.
Some surmise that the Big Apple’s bottom surplus is a reaction to the daily grind of making it in the city. “I have to be on all day,” Jason says. “At night, I don’t want to have all the responsibility on me. And the responsibility is on the top because he has to have an erection in order for sex to happen.” Other men say it’s only natural to want to be a bottom when it’s the bottom who has the most fun. Contrary to what many straight people assume, bottoms are not necessarily submissive or masochistic; any man who’s done some exploring knows the pleasures of the prostate.
Some bottoms call themselves “power bottoms,” which means they take pride in bottoming and are extraordinarily picky about the anatomical endowments of their partners. “A power bottom,” says Stan, 38, a literary agent, “is somebody who can take it pretty easily and likes it a lot. I know a guy like that who’s only topped four guys in his life. I said to him, ‘That’s one per decade!’ ”
It’s a long article and you can read more here. I still think it’s almost impossible to calculate since most bottoms won’t really admit it…something I never understood in the first place.
But I have heard from other guys that in order for them to top they usually need Viagra.
And here’s a link to The Virgin Billionaire Series on Amazon. All books are stand alones and can be read individually. I’m not a big cliff hanger fan. I also like continuity and if you read the sixth or seventh book in the ten book series you won’t have an issue figuring out who the characters are.